sooo…I think you’re really cute. But…I can’t bring myself to say it in person, because I’m really shy about these things. Do you have anyone you’re interested in now?
Aww thanks, that’s super sweet of you to say! I’m flattered :]
Interested in someone? I am..or was. It’s someone who I honestly dont have the guts to really strike up a conversation with..as much as I really would like to. But I’m just too shy towards him to even say more than a simple hi. I doubt he’d ever see me in a way that’s more than a friend. So a part of me wants to let go haha…
So you could say there’s kinda someone I’m interested in..but I might give up. I’m not sure.
Not really a question but I also have a crush on you ever since i saw your smile =D So keep on smiling ok it just brightens my day even though i havent seen you since you graduated from SYH =(… So yea you will never know who i am =] hint i graduated S06
Whoooa thanks I’m super flattered. Though really curious on who this is. :p Are you a friend of mine?
why do you lie and say you like long walks on the beach when you FAIL…epically…at going to the beach?
Masculinity- A man on power, a man with power, and a man of power.
Is that how you really feel?
Do you feel like a sissy when you can’t hold back you’re emotions? Are you always on your guard having to feel like the emotional rock that we as women need to stay strong? Are you always on your toes having to act stronger than you really are? Tougher than you really are? Manlier than you really are?
“Other men watch us, rank us, grant our acceptance into the realm of manhood.”
“ideologies of manhood have functioned primarily on relation to the gaze of male peers and male authority”
tough guise- “a persona based on an extreme notion of masculinity that links the credibility of males to toughness, physical strength, and the threat or use of violence”
Is that why you’d prefer to play sports and show off to impress the feminine beings?
“What we call masculinity is often a hedge against being revealed as a fraud, an exaggerated sat of activities that keep others from seeing through us, and frenzied effort to keep at bay those fears within ourselves. Our real fear IS NOT FEAR OF WOMEN BUT OF BEING ASHAMED OR HUMILIATED IN FRONT OF OTHER MEN, OR BEING DOMINATED BY STRONGER MEN.”
“Homophobia is more than the irrational fear of gay men, more than the fear that we might be perceived as gay.”
“It comes out of the depths of manhood: a label of ultimate contempt for anyone who seems sissy, untough, uncool” “Homophobia is the fear that other men will unmask us. emasculate us, reveal to us and the world that we do not measure up, that we are not real me. We are afraid to let other men see that fear. Fear makes us ashamed, because the recognition of fear in ourselves in proof to ourselves that we are not as manly as we pretend, that we are. Our fear is the fear of humiliation. We are ashamed to afraid.”
“OUR FEARS ARE THE SOURCES OF OUR SILENCES, AND MEN’S SILENCE IS WHAT KEEPS THE SYSTEM RUNNING.”
So i wrote this last year totally dumbfounded by the fact that guys are just as self-conscious, paranoid, and get butthurt just as much as girls are. I have come to realize these crappy ideals guys force themselves to live by in order to be seen in society as a “man”is all bullshit. Fuck mainstream and its brainwashing gender role shit that are being shoved down people’s throats. Who gives a fuck cuz I honestly don’t. And girls.. don’t be subjected into thinking this is how guys are supposed to act. Its not. I hate cocky asses. I hate guys who act nonchalant. And I especially hate girls who throw themselves at those people who act “hard” in order to prove their masculinity. This isn’t some game that people play anymore. It has become a way of life and I’m tired of seeing opposite sexes act like they don’t see eye to eye when deep down they know everything they all stand for as a woman or man is all bullshit.
We have grown to believe guys and girls come from different planets. That we have to “figure them out”. That we have to “read them”. Pfffff. Who the hell are you tryin to kid? There is nothing to figure out or read or have to calculate with a freakin love match calculator. Guys and girls are all the same. the only difference is the stuff below the waist THAT DOES NOT DETERMINE HOW WE THINK, ACT, OR LIVE. So stop acting like it makes a difference.
ANNND I’d just like to point out the JEALOUSY is not a woman’s trait. Competition and the Urge to show off is not a man’s trait either. So stick it where the sun don’t shine and get on with your life. Stop acting like this is some complicated, rocket science, leap of faith sort of stuff cuz its not.
ARIES - The Aggressive Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny.. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, and family is very important to an aries. Aries are known for being generous and giving. Addictive. Loud. Always has the need to be ‘Right’. Aries will argue to prove their point for hours and hours. Aries are some of the most wonderful people in the world.. 16 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
TAURUS - The Tramp Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight. Fight for what they want. Can be annoying at times, but for the love of attention. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. They can be self centered and if they want something they will do anything to get it. They love to sleep and can be lazy. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
GEMINI - The Twin Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners. Very Good at confusing people… Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Geminis will not take any crap from anyone. Geminis like to tell people what they should do and get offended easily. They are great at losing things and are forgetful. Geminis can be very sarcastic and childish at times and are very nosey. Trustworthy. Always happy. VERY Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
CANCER - The Beauty MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. A Cancer’s Love is one of a kind.. Very romantic.. Most caring person you will ever meet in your life. Entirely creative Person, most are artists and insane, respectfully speaking. They perfected sex and do it often. Extremely random. An Ultimate Freak. Extremely funny and is usually the life of the party. Most Cancers will take you under their wing and into their hearts where you will remain forever. Cancers make love with a passion beyond compare. Spontaneous. Not a Fighter, But will kick your ass good if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to! 12 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
LEO - The Lion Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Usually happy but when unhappy tend to be grouchy and childish. A Leo’s problem becomes everyone’s problem. Most Leos are very predictable and tend to be monotonous. Knows how to have fun.. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Very predictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
VIRGO - The One that Waits Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances.. Needs to have the last say in everything.. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. They do not forgive and never forget. The one and only. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
LIBRA - The Lame One Nice to everyone they meet.. Their love is one of a kind. Silly, funny and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with…you might end up crying. Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. Faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports and are extreme sports fanatics. Very creative. A hopeless romantic. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
SCORPIO - The Addict EXTREMELY adorable. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Will try almost anything once. Loves to be pampered. Energetic. Predictable. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want.. Attractive. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Loves to party but at times to the extreme. Loves the smell and feel of money and is good at making it but just as good at spending it! Very protective over loved ones. HARD workers. Can be a good friend but if is disrespected by a friend, the friendship will end. Romantic. Caring.. 4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found.. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. A loner most of the time. Loses patience easily and will not take crap. If in a bad mood stay FAR away. Gets offended easily and remembers the offense forever. Loves deeply but at times will not show it, feels it is a sign of weakness. Has many fears but will not show it. VERY private person. Defends loved ones with all their abilities. Can be childish often. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in bed..!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying. 4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover Love to bust. Nice.. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy. But when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool.. Loves to win against other signs especially Gemini’s in sports. Likes to cook but would rather go out to eat at good restaurants. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind, loves being in long-term relationships. Can be clumsy at times but tries hard. Will take on any project. Proud of themselves in whatever they do. Messy and unorganized. Procrastinators. Great lovers, when they’re not sleeping. Extreme thinkers. Loves their pets usually more than their family. Can be VERY irritating to others when they try to explain or tell a story. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter but will Knock your lights out.. 2 years of bad luck if you do not forward
PISCES - The Partner for Life Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes gets the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to other but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be. 5 years of bad luck if you do not forward.